So - continuing the story about relationships...

as it happens in 98% of the cases, when she asks for an off-time and leaves "home", she never comes back again - which is now proven again...

Women hide a long time and take actions once they have made up their own mind, and this can be already a long time ago and you not even have a clue about this. None of your friends (exceptions are for sure there; but they do not interfere in a positive way) sees or feels something and it get's even worse - you yourself do not see what is happening right in front of you. This is not because you are so stupid or blind due to real love (?) it's more that she has learned in the meantime to play a perfect role towards husband, family and friends.

But as also in 90% of the cases, they run from one relationship directly in a new one which seems to be the perfect solution but these do not last for long. Daily routines that you were used to turn out to be much more difficult to continue in the new one, likes and dislikes turn out a bit too late, and once this ends up in a way where you think it was not the right decision afterwards you start thinking of the past.

And then - this is the time when she falls into the depression and starts asking herself "WHY". If she can answer herself this question it might help but it will be too late. Too much broken, too much lost, too much happend ... it's nothing where glue helps...

Now I am looking forward and try to sort out my own life - look for a new flat, new adventures, new friends on top of the ones who stayed with me and who knows - there are some many nice girls who have great personality, are beautiful, persons on whom you can rely on... I do only need to learn again to trust - thats a big challenge.

And - if you need tips to save your relationship - first be sure that she has not already started a parallel new life with someone new - there are a few things to consider and follow (hard stuff but this will help in 75% of the cases I assume), I am here to help you.

And for those who are still in a relationship - talk to each other, love yourself and her/him, and never forget why you fell together in love...

Take care!